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(Note: This is an edited, more concise version of a previous post.)
Recently I read a comment on a fibromyalgia blog where the person was lambasting the blogger for her whining. Normally, I’d react like the blogger did: “You have no clue what it’s like to live this hell.” But this time I found myself siding with the commenter.
That really bothered me, and I was trying to figure out why. Eventually I figured it out, and decided it was important to share with others. It will probably ruffle many fibro bloggers feathers, thus I feel I am taking a risk putting it out here. But I think it needs to be said.
When you blog – as opposed to private journalling or discussion board/forum posting – there is no control over the audience. It’s one thing to bitch and moan on a fibro support forum. We understand. But when you blog in an open, public space, you represent all of us. Yes, that’s what I said. Whether you intend to or not, you are – at that moment – the “face of fibro” for the reader. So when you whine about something that the uninformed sees as trivial, you perpetuate the stereotype that fibro is just a bunch of weak, oversensitive cry babies. No, it’s not fair or right. But it happens. (See my other post “Why People Don’t Sympathize with Chronic Pain”.)
I realized it wasn’t just the “bitching and moaning” that bugged me so much about fibro bloggers complaining. It was the fact that they are doing it in what I deemed to be an inappropriate way – just blurting out a stream of whining consciousness – in an inappropriate, i.e. unsafe, place. It’s fear – fear of not being taken seriously. A fear many with “invisible illnesses” struggle with. The “But you don’t LOOK sick” dismissal. Like when female executives avoid talking to their male colleagues about the real challenges they face balancing work and family responsibilities – because it could be used as ammunition to prove women can’t make it in a competitive corporate environment.
There is nothing wrong with blogging about the challenges of living with fibromyalgia. But just saying, “This sucks!” is irresponsible given the uphill battle we face to be taken seriously – not only in the general public but also in the medical and research communities.
While freedom of expression should be sacred, so should responsibility. Therefore, I appeal to all fibro bloggers to really THINK about WHY you are writing what you are writing on your blog.
It is critical that people be educated about the reality of this disease. Blogs are a great way to do that. But given the challenges that we face, fibro bloggers more than other bloggers need to periodically take a step back and evaluate the message their blog is sending out to the world. Are you providing truly helpful real-life insight into living with fibro? Or are you just saying, “This sucks!”?
I happened upon this site while researching the situation in Syria in 2012/2013.
This article in particular provides the best overview of US military presence worldwide:
From their “About” page:
The Centre for Research on Globalization (CRG) is an independent research and media organization based in Montreal.
Since September 2001, we have established an extensive archive of news articles, in-depth reports and analysis on issues which are barely covered by the mainstream media.
This is an important website for analysis of current events.
This presentation from a 2010 symposium on fibromyalgia is the best overview I’ve ever come across.
Dr. Wood does an outstanding job of presenting technical information in a way that is easy to understand.
The lecture is split into three videos on YouTube, about 13 minutes each:
Every one with fibromyalgia and their families and friends – and doctors! – must see this!
Source Credit: OFFER Utah: Organization for Fatigue & Fibromyalgia Education & Research http://www.offerutah.org/
Cancer Cures are Being Suppressed
Dr. Stanislaw Burzynski is a medical doctor with a Ph.D in biochemstry. In the 1970’s he developed a gene-targeted cancer treatment that has successfully cured a number of “incurable” cancers. Yet instead of winning a Nobel Prize, Dr. Burzinsky was ruthlessly attacked by our own Food & Drug Administration.
There are two films documenting his work. Both can be found at: http://burzynskimovie.com/.
The earlier film is MUCH better, though harder to find for free (i.e. Netflix). The second film, in my opinion, spends way too much time interviewing just a few families and not enough time on the scientific, legal and business issues.
Everyone in America needs to see these films to understand:
(a) that SAFE cures for cancer have existed for DECADES
(b) WHY these treatments are SUPPRESSED, leaving millions to die unnecessarily
This film is not conspiracy theory sensationalism. It is just the facts. . . facts that will astonish and enrage you.
And think about this: It doesn’t take a conspiracy nut to figure out the following logic: If you were making tons of money, wouldn’t you do just about anything to keep making all that money. Including eliminating any threats to your livelihood? (See the film Who Killed the Electric Car for another example.)
It’s despicable, but it’s also just that simple.
(Hint: A little Xanax helps.)
Starting a website, or any new venture, is often scary. Nerve racking for many. Some anxiety is normal. If you’re determined, you push beyond your fear and do it anyway. As one mentor so eloquently put it: “Frack Fear”.
Well. . .
there is fear. . .
. . .and then there are things with numbers.
You know, the ones that begin with “300” and come out of a little book called the DSM-IV – the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. I’ve got at least a half dozen of them, including PSTD. When I get fearful, I don’t just get a few butterflies in my stomach. I get a full blown panic attack!
So what the HELL am I doing starting a blog?
I asked myself that question so many times over the past two years it has taken me to finally summon up the courage – or the insanity – to launch my site. I thought I was delusional for thinking I should even consider it. That it was just another instance of dissociation, or being out of touch with reality. Better make an appointment with my therapist.
There were times I thought I should be “realistic”. Find a low-stress menial job, live in a cheap apartment, watch TV and live on microwave dinners. Lots of people live that way. What’s wrong with that? There’s no rule that says life has to be a certain way. There’s no rule that says you have to strive to “be a better person”. Accept what you’ve been given and just chill.
Boy that’s tempting. But when I played out the scenario further, another vision came to me. I could accept not being happy – content would do. That’s not the issue. But the thought of spending the rest of my life watching “Dancing with the Stars” – that would put me right over the edge.
If figure, if I’m going to end up in a mental hospital, I may as well get there doing something a little more interesting.